And she said 'Are you okay? What's going on? Are you in danger'? And I told her 'No, no, it's not like that'. You need to drive out to LA.we have to talk. Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast.Let's stay connected and keep the conversation going: Special mention of a particular listener who shares their perspective from a completely different part of the world, where being gay is just not accepted and could mean endangering oneself if exposed. Why having a voice and speaking up for others who don't have the same luxuries as us is important. Reflecting on the feeling of having to hide to make others feel comfortable and why visibility is important. For the sole purpose of making other people feel comfortable.' 'I never wanted to be in a situation where I felt like I had to change myself or to hide parts of myself to make other people feel comfortable.